topic of the week is: having sex before marriage :)
i honestly never thought that we đuiếc would ever really talk about this. excluding Thao obviously cus yes she and i have had several conversations about this topic. but its actually pretty interesting to hear different opinions from these precious people in my life. we once talked about this during one of our tue community nite. yes having sex is an important part of marriage because believe it or not, it does matter if ur partner does it well or not-well. so one argument was that yes u can try to decide whether or not to marry ur significant other because if ur not satisfied physically then no one can guarantee ur marriage will last. BUT, if u never try having sex before u get married, then u dont have a standard (since ur significant other will be the only person u ll ever sleep with). therefore, u dont know if the sex is good/bad and u ll be satisfied w what u have cus u dont have any other experience to compare it with. they both make sense. what matters is that WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT IT? Mau said no. Thao said yes (i remember so...). Thao said Hien and Mau said yes when they talked about it in vn (wth...). and im not sure if bom has ever thought about it (shes such an innocent and sweet girl <3). but if u do think its fine then theres something to consider: u have to make sure that the other person can be responsible for whatever may happen to u two. of course we r gonna use protection (sorry to be so blunt about this haha) but still. u know that disgusting feeling when u kiss someone and one day u realize hes an ass and u just wanna unkiss him? imagine that happens but this time its so much more than a kiss. if u just do it for the experience or to show that ur cool enough to sleep with someone then sorry ur nothing but a SLUT. hmm i believe i know at least one. not in that sense but yeah.
for me? im fine with it. because 1) i dont think im gonna date any guys (not very surprising is it?) and 2) i still dont think im gonna date any guys :). i mean if i have a date AND if we get serious enough AND if the situation is right, i ll move out to live w that person. but thats a lot of ANDs and we will see what God brings me : )
peace out !
... its true. work out always gets me hyper. forgot to mention Huy was having a party at his aunts today so i went to gym by myself, ran (or walked fast idk) on the ... (i forgot what its called...) for an hour without stopping and i burned 600 cals!!! i usually run half an hour in the afternoon and half and hour at night and do some other stuff too so this was the first time i ran for the whole hour. felt good. now too hyper to sleep ;(
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